Having kids can be pretty tough.

Not that I have any of my own, mind you. I’m just speaking as a casual observer who has friends and family members with little ones.

If you and your main squeeze are considering having a bundle of joy, take a quick look at these memes before you make your final decision…

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h/t: pleated-jeans